Since moving out here to Arizona and I saw photos of my girl with another man I have joined 2 different dating services.  On one I can like the person and then send a message. But about 1/2 of these women have their messages turned off. So what good is it to be on a site where u are trying to meet men and you turn your messages off? So far I haven't had any attractive women like me. Only big fat women. lol Sorry she must be physically attractive to me before I will even read her profile. And then if she seems like a bitch or puts in her description that "no Trumpers" I skip right by.