So yesterday I sat all day with no response from my lover. This morning I got the usual hello honey. She then said sorry the WIFI went down. I don't believe that for one minute. She is at her moms house in Chicago area and also at her house in Arizona she is telling me the wifi went down. It happens all the time at both places and I told her once before I have never seen anybody with such bad wifi. I don't believe her. I believe she is doing something else and that is the excuse she uses. Right now I have to think I am being played and will be very cautious from here on out. I text her to much. sometimes I will text as many as ten times with no response. Then she will say sorry honey I was away from my phone or I was busy. She once told me not to long ago that her mom was complaining she was always on the phone.  So she said she was gonna try to not text to much. So anyway I have decided that I will not text her until she text me. And when I respond I will wait until she responds back. I am constantly finding myself responding 3 ,4 or even 5 times before she responds.  This women has brought tears to my eyes many times. She is constantly going from state to state and doesn't tell me she is there. And I have told her how rude that is.  She even left the country and went to Egypt once for two weeks and told me that nobody was supposed to know she was going there. I can understand that to a certain extent as if it was announced she could possibly be kidnapped. Especially in a country that has muslim terrorist there. However she has been flying all over the country for probably 20 years or more and it is probably nothing for her and doesn't think about it. I told her to at least let me know "hey I am going to Cali today or Fla. today. I will text you when you I get there" That never happens and I have told her at least 3 times. All of this still makes me believe I am dealing with a scammer. And then I see or find things in her pictures and post that sorta prove to me she is not. 

So she just now responded to my text. It has been at least 1/2 hour maybe an hour. I am gonna let her wait for a response and see how she likes it. I am sure she is gonna notice that and then ask me what is wrong. We shall see. I also noticed she is always short with her answers. Like she just said had a lot to do yesterday. But if she tells me what she did  it is usually short also. Had to go thru my emails or had a lot of papers to do or look at. 

Now as far as my new home  I have a final settlement tomorrow (Mon) and should get the keys. My dilemma is I have to be out of the room I am renting at 11 am. So my food will be in my car until settlement. It will all be spoiled except the dry goods. I have messaged my realtor and asked if there is anyway I can put my stuff in the fridge there before settlement. She has not responded yet as I know she goes to church on Sunday mornings. 

So this morning I have written my response to the divorce papers I was served last week and signed it. Saying I agree with all the things we have agreed on in the papers. Now today I have to wash a load of clothes at a launder mat and get an envelope & stamp for this letter and mail it. Soon my divorce will be final. My X wants to know who this other women is. I told her I would tell her after the divorce. She is telling me she needs to know for closure. Well I am debating not telling her at all and if my new women is real she will find out in the news shortly after.